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Trudy Gomez's avatar

Wow! You really nailed it! This is so well written! You are a great writer! Is that too many exclamation points??? I especially love… “This isn’t woo. It’s neuroscience.” I find the steps to be clear and straightforward. I can’t wait to try them out. I also appreciate the examples of using the steps in your life as well. Like you said, everyone’s way is unique and even things like your method need to be adapted individually. Thanks for the great post.

Krystee Morgan De Souza's avatar

Thanks, Trudy! I love to hear that showing you how I use the steps was helpful. I'm the same way, I don't like people to explicitly tell me how I should use it, but I love seeing it in action so I can then determine how it fits into my life. I really appreciate your thoughts, as always.

Victoria Gohl's avatar

Krystee! This is fantastic and BEAUTIFULLY written! I am so proud of you and I can't wait to apply it to my current roller coaster ride! Thank You! Keep going!

Krystee Morgan De Souza's avatar

Thanks, Vicky! This is the first time I have included my parents in the origin story of my framework. I didn't want to dishonor my amazing, charismatic (yet flawed) dad. It feels really good to finally put all 3 pieces together and own it for what it is. Please please let me know if you do apply it and which step you love most.

Amy's avatar

Oh my gosh! This is so timely! I don't even know how I found it. Someone posted on Facebook about it and I don't even know that someone. I'm stuck so stuck and I have a brilliant purpose and assignment from God. I lay awake all night wondering how to get moving forward again. God answered with your post. I'm glad today was the day that you were able to share this amazing method. I too have been sitting on things way too long and need to get them out to the world. Please let me know when your book is available for order or pre-order. This is brilliant! And just for the record I think it's much more valuable then Mel Robbins countdown 5 Seconds😄

Krystee Morgan De Souza's avatar

Wow, Amy. Thank you so much for sharing the impact that this post had on you. This is what us writers dream of -- reaching that ONE person right when they need it most. I am so glad it was encouraging to you. I love how you found me as well! (so God). Prior to the book coming out I will be hosting some workshops as well so I will keep you posted on both. Thank you again for reading. May I ask for you to keep me posted as well? I'd love to hear how and if you implement the method to your life. Or tell me which step resonated the most. I love to hear the direct impact it has on people, as it changed my life for the better.

Amy's avatar

Yes please keep me posted on your workshops. And I too am a writer and understand how impactful it is when you get positive feedback on your work. Here is a link to my book

https://tinyurl.com/GracefulParenting

and my email is profparent@gmail.com so put me on your mailing list

Amy's avatar

Omg, I'm so honored!! Do you have children? Would love to hear your feedback either way

Krystee Morgan De Souza's avatar

I do. My son will be 2 in December :) Excited to read.

Amy's avatar

Oh that's the perfect age! You will love the book. I'm also developing an online community of parent who are walking out the journey together. What the Lord revealed to me is so different and so counterintuitive that it needs to be walked out in a supportive community. I'll have some mini courses available in there too along with some live coaching calls. I'll send you the link so you can join. There's no charge to join

Jamin's avatar

Holy cow—This framework is fantastic!!! I love the parallels and between real world and behind the camera. And no, nobody else can swoop in to write this better than you because it’s YOUR UNIQUE EXPERIENCE that brought this about and drives everything here forward… We want to know more, and you’re the only one who can tell us!!! Keep it up, Krystee! Can’t wait to see this framework in print!

Krystee Morgan De Souza's avatar

Thank you so much, Jamin. It's so important to be reminded that no one can replace your own unique experience. I really do believe this framework is so authentically mine. I hope it changes and improves many lives :)

Valorie MacDonald's avatar

I can't even narrow down to comment, so many points resonate for me. And my background is completely different.

Love this for the moment I'm living right now!🙏

Krystee Morgan De Souza's avatar

Thanks, Val. YES, this mindset tool can be used for anyone, no matter their background. I'm so glad it resonates.

Valorie MacDonald's avatar

..the system wasn’t nurturing creativity, it was draining it—teaching us to operate in noise and pressure instead of presence and flow. The danger is subtle but real.

For me this related to an overarching pressure filled performance based approach, that permeated every part of how I came up and became a whole imprint, almost pre-determining my choices: what I believed I was worthy of (or not worthy of) in any type of life pursuit, from education/career to relationships and everything in between.